A Farewll Dinner

Thursday night the University invited the Stiles and Petits out to dinner at Sai Villa (in case you think there appears to be only one restaurant for evening events, you may be right). We were joined by the assistant Provost Dr. Labawa, the Dean of Theology and the Acting Dean of the Sciences. We had a lovely time and talked about continuing the pastor-teacher arrangement that has been going on for a number of years. I know I have expressed frustration about the way things are run, but I think these three understand and I know the Provost has scolded the faculty for not showing up in time and not paying attention to the calendar. The problem may just take some time to work itself out as the local culture clashes with the needs of a modern, interconnected society.

We were given the most amazing gifts. I must admit I saw the box and thought "another giraffe". But no, these are the most beautiful carved nativity scenes. The are the perfect memorabilia for us from this experience. We had talked about getting one of these but we have a set that Sharon made and we have treasured each of the figures as take it out each Christmas. This new set will bring more memories.

Thank you Tumaini and all of you here in Tanzania. It has been a most memorable experience.

Now on a more serious note we must reveal something which has been going on here nearly every evening. Certain members of the Petit/Stiles clan have created a ritual that we must endure each night as we say good night. During advent we have moved the wisemen, sheep and shepherds as they are on their travels to Bethlehem. But after that we must have "Grammy Huggy Time". Sharon (Grammy) and Tobie (Mr. Enthusiasm) must join in this traditional dance of the Swedish ancestors and sing "It's Grammy Huggy Time" to the tune of "Ta Rah Rah Boom Di Aye". I know it sounds silly, but Grammy has been having some serious withdrawal from hugging little people (Brooke and Hannah and Brinn may be injured by the hugs they will get soon). And Tobie loves to dance so off they go.

This is not one of these secret rituals carried out by the light of a bonfire. No, they do this right out in the open (admittedly with only sympathetic family watching). We laugh as they make up a new way to do the Huggie Dance. Tonight it was with high pitched and low pitched voices. I am not sure this will continue, but maybe Sharon will have to Skype Tobie every night to dance together. Ginny may have to take over next week (Tobie's real Grammy). Good night all and see you soon.